{"id":1245,"date":"2011-06-22T23:41:12","date_gmt":"2011-06-22T23:41:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astralcandy.com\/?p=1245"},"modified":"2012-03-21T21:33:13","modified_gmt":"2012-03-21T21:33:13","slug":"blurring-the-lines-between-online-and-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mreh.net\/?p=1245","title":{"rendered":"Blurring the lines between online and off"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In my own little group, I have met three people from the ls:<\/p>\n<p>1. My own boyfriend (duh)<br \/>\n2. Hiroshiko; I grew up with him since he was a wee little ankle biter<br \/>\n3. Reiokyu during Sakura Con 2010<\/p>\n<p>Well, make that four:<\/p>\n<p>4. A friend of Kiln&#8217;s who was in my Chinese History class at the University of Washington and whom I remember fondly as the guy who turned in his final paper just minutes after the final had started. <\/p>\n<p>Other than that, I have known players to live close to or around the area, but have never really met any of them. Then in comes Maiev who isn&#8217;t even from Ragnarok and whom I have only played briefly with during my brief stint on the Fenrir server. I&#8217;ve known the guy mostly due to the fact we are bloggers (go go blogger community!) and at one point we were on BBM and working on FFXIVblog.com together. <\/p>\n<p>Last Saturday we met in downtown Seattle along with Nomnom from the <a href=\"https:\/\/dalmati.ca\">Dalmatica Network<\/a>. It was fun listening to stories about Ragnarok then and of course now, and then talking about the state of XI as it is now. Its a conversation piece that seems to be prevalent in many circles I am in, but one I will not explore here since its now isn&#8217;t really the time. But it made me think of just how much more fun the people I meet online are than those I know offline. It has been a realization I have come to when talking to people I know locally, because although they are great people&#8230; they just aren&#8217;t as full of super-duper awesome sauce as the more competent players I&#8217;ve met on FFXI (cause the dumb ones are just that: dumb). Sure we&#8217;re talking bits of code and digital data, but&#8230; even so, a lot of people had a lot of passion for what they did. Its always fun to see that passion in people&#8217;s eyes and in their intonation when they speak. The good, the bad, and the downright ugly is all there and you can&#8217;t help but relate because part of you has also experienced that to some degree.<\/p>\n<p>I guess what doesn&#8217;t help me at all is that a lot of my friends in real life are mostly, um, older ladies who have a spouse and kids. Ring on finger? Nope. Carrying a child for nine months and popping them out from between my legs? Most definitely no. Sure its hard talking to others about my gaming life, but&#8230; when I actually do talk to these people who understand, its like a whole new world of excitement and joy. <\/p>\n<p>I guess that&#8217;s why I can&#8217;t seem to be thankful enough that I got TeamDerp on my side and was able to meet Maiev and Nomnom in person. They get that part of you that not many in the &#8220;real&#8221; world would, and are much easier to be yourself around because, hey, we&#8217;re all dorks\/geeks\/nerds\/whatever anyway, right?<\/p>\n<p>Now if only I can think of a cheap way to get the rest of TeamDerp onto the west coast for a convention get together. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In my own little group, I have met three people from the ls: 1. My own boyfriend (duh) 2. Hiroshiko; I grew up with him since he was a wee little ankle biter 3. 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